随着市场经济的发展,人们的平等观念、民主意识普遍增强,理解、尊重、信任已成为当代社会的心声,人们对爱、信任、和谐的内涵有了更高层次的理解。本文从以诚相待、平等待人、保护个人隐私、宽恕他人、要爱得贴切、关心他人的个人利益、严爱相济、创造和谐的人际关系等方面,论述了思想政治工作者必须用爱交换爱,用信任交换信任,在和谐的氛围中解决问题; With the development of market economy, people’s concept of equality and democratic awareness are generally enhanced. Understanding, respect and trust have become the voices of contemporary society. People have a higher understanding of the connotation of love, trust and harmony. This article discusses that ideological and political workers must use love to treat each other honestly, treat others equally, protect individual privacy, forgive others, want to be lovingly concerned, care for the personal interests of others, benevolence and mutual benefit, and create harmonious interpersonal relationships. Exchange love, exchange trust with trust, solve problems in a harmonious atmosphere;