Q我今年42岁,生活在上海,有着很好的工作和生活条件,是朋友圈公认的幸福女人。但谁知道我的苦衷呢!我觉得,现在四十岁以上的女人都活得很累,可以说在婚姻问题上95%以上的女人都不幸福,因为她们的丈夫都有过情人或出轨,这个估计一点都不过分。只是许多女人为了面子不愿承认,或反应迟钝没有发现。一些男人没出轨,只不过是没有条件而已……我不知道这是不是人之常情,为什么这种现象如此普遍?我认识的很多朋友包括我,丈夫都和其他女人有染。和很多男人比起来,我的丈夫对我算是非常好的了,金钱上大方,生活中体贴,用他的话说,任何女人都不能代替我的位置。一度,我觉得自己 Q I am 42 years old and live in Shanghai. I have good working and living conditions and are recognized as happy women in my circle of friends. But who knows my difficulties? I think that women over the age of 40 are now very tired. It can be said that over 95% of women in marriage are unhappy because their husbands have lover or derailment. This estimate is not excessive. Only many women do not want to admit to face, or unresponsive to find. Some men are not derailed but merely have no qualifications... I do not know if this is not human nature. Why is this phenomenon so common? Many of the friends I know, including me, and her husband, are involved in other women. Compared with many men, my husband is very good to me, generous money, considerate life, in his words, no woman can replace my position. For a time, I feel myself