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有句俗语叫做“老婆是人家的好,孩子是自己的好”。这句话很实在地反映出当夫妻视彼此为左右手时,那种本能上的喜新厌旧和感觉上的麻木心理是压不住藏不住的。人有很多本能的东西在和理智打架,因此人的感觉是复杂的。怎样才能使我们的婚姻历久弥新,使爱情常在常新,真是一门最复杂的艺术。它需要你不断“学习”,学习怎样使自己保鲜,学习怎样相互欣赏,学习怎样在本能和智之间找到最佳结合点。
There is a saying called “my wife is good for others, children are their own good.” This sentence really reflects that when the couple regard each other as right-hand man, that kind of instinctive hi new and feel numb psychological can not help but hold it. People have a lot of instinctive things in the fight with reason, so people’s feelings are complicated. It is really one of the most complicated art to see how our marriage can last forever and make love always new. It requires you to keep “learning”, learning how to keep yourself fresh, learning how to appreciate each other, and learning how to find the best combination of instincts and wisdom.