不瞒人说,前段时期,我与工作不久的儿子有了“代沟”。矛盾的焦点亦很鲜明、典型。儿子觉得,自己二十四五岁了,要谈恋爱、要买房、要结婚,算算眼前至少急需几十万,而靠机关发的那点工资,哪一天能“聚”起来?!看看外面许多大亨、大款,尤其是看到与他在乡下一起长大的表兄,高中未毕业就外出办厂,几年便赚了几百万,妻子、房子、车子全有了,他心中越是骚动不安,常常发出欲“孤注一掷”的狂言。对于生活,我常唠叨,还是把标准放 Do not tell the truth, some time ago, I have a job with the son of “generation gap.” The focus of conflicts is also very clear, typical. My son felt that he was 24 years old and had to fall in love, wanted to buy a house, got married, and counted at least hundreds of thousands in urgent need of immediate relief. Take a look at many tycoons outside, especially the big cousin who grew up with him in the country. After graduating from high school, he went out to set up factories and earned millions in a few years. His wife, his house and his car were all there. The more disturbing his heart is, he often sends out “desperately needed” madness. For life, I often nagging, or put the standard