我曾收到过许多父母的来信,他们伤心地告诉我说孩子到了十三、四岁,反而变得不懂事了,心里有什么话都不愿告诉父母,为此,他们只好用偷看孩子日记。偷拆孩子信件来了解孩子的内心世界,但被孩子知道后,与父母有了更大的隔阂,家庭气氛显得很尴尬,做父母的非常苦恼。在这期的“家教话题”里,董炳新先生谈的话题“不必知道孩子的一切”,也许会给这些父母一些启发。亲爱的家长们,希望你们能理解这一年龄阶段的孩子,给他们心中留一片自己的小天地。 I have received letters from many parents who sadly told me that when they reached the age of thirteen or four, they became unconscionable and had no words in mind to tell their parents that they had to peek at their children diary. Stealing children’s letters to understand the child’s inner world, but the children know, and parents have a greater gap, the family atmosphere is very embarrassing, parents are very distressed. In this issue of “Tutoring,” Mr. Dong Bingxin’s talk “Do not need to know everything about children” may give some inspiration to these parents. Dear parents, I hope you can understand this age children, to give them a heart to leave their own little world.