我看到那些很出色的人,都在感恩孩子。几年前一些杂志约我写过如何教孩子感恩之类的文章。现在,我看到“教孩子感恩”之类的话或者类似的活动,心里非常抵触。为什么要教孩子感恩呢?难道我们认为没有我们教,孩子就不爱我们吗?父母对孩子的爱是很大很深的,孩子对父母的爱其实也是很大很深的。 I see those very good people, are grateful children. A few years ago, some magazines about me wrote how to teach children such as Thanksgiving articles. Now, I see “teaching children to be thankful,” and the like or similar activities, and I feel very contradictory. Why do we teach children to feel grateful? Do we think that without our teaching, children do not love us? Parents love their children is very deep, the child’s love for parents is actually very deep.