一、液回球式地扩大事态当问题第一次出现时即正视它，那么它很容易就化为乌有了．但不少人却让问题像滚雪球一样，不断地扩大下去。最会滚雪球的人总是遵照这样一条简单的规则行事的；“如果错过了解决问题的时机，索性再往后拖拖。”比如，在婚姻关系中，把自己的忿怒和苦恼 First, the liquid back to the ball to expand the situation when the problem first time that it is facing it, it is easy to turn out to be ugly. However, many people make the issue like a snowball, constantly expanding. Most snowball players always follow such a simple rule; “If you miss out on the timing of the problem, simply drag it further.” For example, in a marriage, take one’s wrath and distress