最近几年的教学中,一直有这样的困惑:为什么我们对教育的重视程度越来越高,教学模式越来越丰富,但厌学的孩子却越来越多。没读美国作家威廉·格拉瑟的《了解你的学生:选择理论下的师生双赢》这本书之前,我以为这只是周围学生的现象,并且对这个问题只是停留在焦虑和不知深层原因的阶段。假期里读完这本书后我突然有一种茅塞顿开、豁然开朗的感觉,对这个问题有了更多的理解和更 In the recent years of teaching, there has been such confusion as to why we attach more importance to education and have more and more rich teaching models, but more and more weary children. Before I read the book, “Know Your Student: A Win-win Situation for Teachers and Students under the Theory of Choice,” by American writer William Glasser, I thought it was only a phenomenon of students around me and I was only concerned with the problem of anxiety and deep reason stage. After reading this book during the holidays, I suddenly had a feeling of ignorance and cheerfulness. I had more understanding of this issue and more