老周快50岁了,在他的心里藏着一个40多年的心结,每每想起,心里就难受。在一次团体辅导中,提到父母,老周非常肯定地说:“我父亲不喜欢我。”老周说,他的父亲脾气非常暴躁,父母经常吵架,他和两个弟弟基本上都是被打着长大的。老周总感觉父亲不喜欢自己,父亲会照顾体弱的大弟,会照顾年幼的小弟,唯独不关心他,父亲经常不问青红皂白打他,不管是否犯错,不管是他的错还是弟弟的错,挨打的总是他。团体成员分享了 The old week is almost 50 years old, hiding in his heart a 40 years of heart knot, often think, my heart uncomfortable. In a group counseling, referring to parents, Lao Zhou said with certainty: “My dad does not like me. ” Old Zhou said his father was very temper, his parents often quarreled, and he and two younger brothers were basically It is grown. Old Zhou always felt that his father did not like himself. His father would take care of the frail younger brother and take care of the younger brother. Only he did not care about him. His father often did not ask for indiscriminate beating him, whether it was mistakes, whether he was wrong or his younger brother The wrong, always beaten by him. Group members shared