自从孩子接触到幼儿园、学校等群体生活,就不知不觉地陷入了各种比较之中。幼儿园时代,比较谁把事情做得更好;开始上学了,最突出的比较就是谁考的分数最高了。孩子上小学一年级的第二个星期迎来了她第一次考试,由于那时的孩子还不知考试为何物,所以没有丝毫的紧张,反倒像遇见了一件新鲜事儿兴奋无比,那次是考的汉语拼音,她考了88分,她的同桌考了 Since the children came into contact with kindergartens, schools and other groups, they unknowingly fall into various comparisons. Kindergarten, who compared things to do better; start school, the most prominent comparison is who test the highest score. The second week of first grade in primary school brought her to her first exam. Since at that time the child still did not know what the exam was, she did not feel the slightest nervousness. Instead she was extremely excited when she met a new thing. Hanyu Pinyin is a test, she took 88 points, her at the same table test