想让老板听得进歌功颂德的马屁话之外的真心话,是需要技巧的。一言以蔽之,态度和立场很关键。喜欢直来直去说话的人会很吃亏,因为对方往往并不是按照字面意思来理解他的话,而是习惯于去猜他的话中之意,然后得出一个不同于说者原意的理解。这就是为什么不懂社交的技术人才老觉得自己得不到重视的原因之一。他们 Truth beings that require the boss to listen to the cuddly words of glorification of praise are skills. In a nutshell, attitude and position are key. People who like to speak straight and straightforward will suffer greatly because the other person often does not understand him in a literal sense but instead is accustomed to guessing what he says and then drawing an understanding that is different from the original intention of the speaker. This is one of the reasons why people who do not understand social skills often find themselves undervalued. they