鲁迅先生早在70年前就说过，“中国中流的家庭，教孩子大抵只要两种法。其一，是任其跋扈，一点也不管，骂人固可，打人亦无不可，在门内或门前是暴主，是霸王，但到外面，便如失了网的蜘蛛一般，立刻毫无能力。其二，是终日给以冷遇或呵斥，甚至于打扑，使他畏葸退缩，仿佛是 As early as 70 years ago, Lu Xun said: "Chinese mid-stream families teach their children only as long as two kinds of laws, either because they are overbearing, they do not care at all, curse people and attack anyone, Or in front of the door is a violent Lord, is overlord, but to the outside, it is like a lost spider web in general, immediately incapable of secondly, is the day to give cold or scold, or even flutter, so that he retreat, as if Yes