明明在牵手走进婚姻殿堂时,我们曾真诚地许诺:真心相待、彼此呵护、相互扶持、共同承担。可是现实婚姻里,繁杂的工作、闹心的孩子、琐碎的家务压过来时,关系开始失衡。我们会抱怨对方给自己的支持不够多,会抱怨对方的爱不够走心。是我们的爱变质了吗?认真想想,其实对方是爱自己的,但为什么我们的爱就像存在于两个空间里的两条线,交错而过,却无法碰撞呢?或许有一点被我们忽视了,那就是男人和女人的差异。,我们常常沉浸在自己的逻辑中,按照自己的想法和习惯去假定对方 Obviously, when we go hand in hand into the marriage hall, we have sincerely promised: treat each other with sincerity, care for each other, support each other and share together. However, the actual marriage, the complicated work, child-friendly children, trivial housework pressure over, the relationship began to imbalance. We will complain about each other to their own support is not enough, will complain about each other’s love is not careful. Is our love spoiled? Think seriously, in fact, the other side is love yourself, but why our love is like two lines exist in two spaces, staggered, but can not collide it? We ignore it, that is the difference between men and women. , We are often immersed in their own logic, according to their own ideas and habits to assume each other