任何人都希望得到别人的肯定和欣赏,以此来确定自身的价值。正如美国心理学家詹姆斯所说:“人内心深处最强烈的愿望是能够被人欣赏。”因此,哪怕是表面再不在乎学生的都会有强烈的赏识需要。 Anyone wants to be affirmed and appreciated by others in order to determine their own value. As the American psychologist James put it: “The strongest wish in people’s hearts is to be appreciated.” Therefore, there is a strong appreciation of need even for students who do not care about their faces.