每一个学生个体都是生命的种子,种子的成长总要经过发芽、成苗、根茎发达、枝繁叶茂,最后才是激动人心的繁花盛开甚至硕果高挂。然而,学生的成长中总会出现不尽如人意的发芽迟缓、枝叶枯黄,甚至暂时不开花不结果的尴尬局面,作为教师,亦或作为家长,我们该做些什么呢?答案是:等待,静静地等待。有这样一个例子,一位妈妈买回来一个菠萝,好奇的孩子被这个从未见过的东西吸引住了,这位妈妈可能会有两种方式对待好奇的孩子。 Each individual student is the seed of life. The growth of the seed always goes through germination, seedling development, developed root system, flourish, and finally is an exciting flower blooming even fruitful. However, there are always unsatisfactory delays in students’ growth, yellowish branches and leaves, and temporary embarrassment of not blooming. As teachers and parents, what should we do? The answer is: wait, Wait quietly. In one such case, a mother bought a pineapple and the curious child was drawn to what she had never seen before. The mother might have two ways to treat a curious child.