我曾在广西一家报刊发表过一篇散文,题目是《对妻“坦白”》,在那篇文章的结尾有这样一句话:你敬人一尺,人敬你一丈,做夫妻也应该这样。 对于夫妻之间如何相互尊重,报刊也曾有不少的精品,各有千秋、独有见解。但在我的记忆里,确也曾经耳闻目睹过一桩桩、一件件因夫妻之间不能珍惜尊重而造成的悲剧。 I once published an essay in a newspaper in Guangxi on the topic of “confessing his wife.” There is a saying at the end of that essay: You respect one foot, respect one’s husband, and you should do the same . For how to respect each other between husband and wife, the newspapers also have a lot of quality, each has its own unique insights. But in my memory, I really have seen and heard one after another, a piece of tragedy caused by the inability of husband and wife to cherish respect.