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心理学第三思潮的创建者、美国著名人本主义心理学家马斯洛曾指出,爱是个非常神圣而崇高的心理学话题,可惜心理学界研究的实在太少了。当代心理学家指出,构建和谐社会离不开和谐心理,而和谐心理的基础就是爱,只有心存爱心才能天天快乐,没有爱心就不能营造和谐心理。希腊神话中有一个美丽的故事:爱情使者丘比特问爱神阿佛洛狄忒: “LOVE的意义在哪?”爱神阿佛洛狄忒说:“L”代表着LISTEN(倾听)。爱就是要无条件无偏见地倾听对方的需求,并且予以协助。“O”代表OBLIGATE(感恩)。“V”代表VALUE(尊重)。“E”代表EXCUSE(宽恕)。
Maslow, a famous humanistic psychologist in the United States who founded the third trend of psychology, pointed out that love is a very sacred and sublime subject of psychology. Unfortunately, there are too few researches in psychology. Contemporary psychologists point out that building a harmonious society is inseparable from the harmonious psychology, and the foundation of harmonious psychology is love. Only through compassion can we be happy every day. Without love, we can not create a harmonious psychology. Greek mythology, there is a beautiful story: love angel Cupid asked the goddess of love Aphrodite: “What is the meaning of LOVE?” Love Aphrodite said: “L ” stands for LISTEN ). Love is to unconditionally and unobtrusively listen to each other’s needs and to assist them. “O ” represents OBLIGATE (Thanksgiving). “V ” stands for VALUE (Respect). “E ” stands for EXCUSE.