一九七一年底,外婆在一个阳光和煦的日子里去世了。西宝兴路殡仪馆,外婆安详地躺在灵床上,她嘴中的假牙被取走了,两颊深陷,脸变得那么短。这是我第一次与亲人的死亡离得如此之近——外婆不在了,在那儿躺着的似乎是个替身,只有灵堂黑布幔上那张外婆的黑白照片是真实的。哀乐响起,母亲带领我们几个孩子肃立了几分钟,没有悼词也没有哭声。 At the end of 1972, Grandma passed away on a sunny day. Xi Baoxing Road funeral parlor, grandmother lying on the bed in peace, her mouth was removed dentures, cheeks deep, his face becomes so short. This is the first time I have been so close to the death of a loved one - my grandmother is gone, and there seems to be a substitute for lying there. Only the black and white picture of the grandmother on the veil black cloth is real. Dreamed of, the mother led us a few children stand for a few minutes, there is no eulogy and no cry.