每一个愤怒、悲伤、恐惧的情绪后面,都是感到缺乏安全,没有得到肯定、认可、理解和关爱的呼喊;每一个当下的行为和状态,都是过去的延长或冰山一角。上了初中,有很多孩子开始不再像小学时那样愿意亲近妈妈,似乎升入初中成了生活的一个分水岭,家长、老师包括学生自己,都开始主动地把学习成绩提高到了重要和重视的位置。初中的孩子感到了更多的被管制而又无处藏身。于是,心里有了委屈,觉得父母不再那么爱自己了,也慢慢积累了不良的情绪,甚至 Every feeling of anger, sadness, and fear is behind the scarcity of insecurity, lack of affirmation, recognition, understanding and care; every act and state of the moment is an extension of the past or a tip of the iceberg. At junior high school, many children begin to stop being as close to their mother as they did when they were in elementary school. It seems that ascended into junior high school, they have become a watershed in their life. Parents and teachers, including students themselves, have started to take their academic performance to the point of importance and importance . Middle school children feel more controlled and have no place to hide. So, my heart has grievances, that parents are not so self-love, but also slowly accumulated bad mood, or even