如果你爱上他,就得学会心疼他。1.当你爱上一个男子,千万别去想自己是不是应该矜持一点。爱他就告诉他。有时候男人也很爱虚荣,你的表白会让他的自信达到顶点。2.当你已经不爱他了,那么也用最直接的方式告诉他。别去考虑他会不会脆弱,男人的自尊远比伤痛重要。3.当你们已经相爱,那么就要对他信任,有什么想法就告诉他,不管他支持不支持。任何一个男子都希望他的女人依靠他。4.在他的朋友面前,要给他十足的地位。面子对男子来说比什么都重要,不要介意在人前当个小女人,要知道小女人都是男 If you love him, you have to learn to feel bad about him. When you fall in love with a man, do not think you should not hold on to it. Love him to tell him. Sometimes men also love vanity, your confession will make his self-confidence peaked. 2. When you have not loved him, then tell him in the most direct way. Do not think he will be vulnerable, a man’s self-esteem far more important than the pain. 3. When you have fallen in love, then trust him, have any idea to tell him, whether he supports or not. Any man wants his woman to rely on him. 4. In front of his friends, give him full status. Face is more important to men than anything, do not mind being a small woman in front of people, to know that small women are men