性感女星玛丽莲·梦露曾被人问及孩提时代是否感受到“爱”,她的答复是:“只有一次。”住过不同育幼院的她,被冷落已习以为常。有一次,她站在保姆的身旁,看着她化妆,保姆用粉扑对着她的鼻尖,轻轻地拍了几拍,并微微笑。小小的动作,梦露说:“那一瞬间,我感觉被爱。”不晓得她后来为什么会选择自杀,不过,人生竟然只有一次感觉被爱,实在够可怜。心理学家说,小孩一天至少需要被拥抱四次,八次更好,能够有十二次,情绪一定能稳定成长。没有被爱的人,情绪容易失控。 Sexy actress Marilyn Monroe, who was asked whether she felt “love” in her childhood, replied: “Only once.” It was customary to be left out of a nursery for being cold-hearted. Once, she stood beside the nanny, watching her make-up, the nanny using a puff against her nose, patted it lightly and smiled slightly. Little action, Monroe said: “That moment, I feel loved.” I do not know why she later chose to commit suicide, but life is only once feeling loved, it is pitiful enough. Psychologists say that children need to be embraced at least four times a day, eight times better, can have twelve times, and their emotions will certainly grow steadily. Without love, emotions tend to get out of control.