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我觉得父亲对孩子说“我爱你”有点矫情,这种矫情是不该出现在父子或父女之间。其实这是一个错误。如果父亲不把自己的爱告诉孩子的话,孩子会把父爱误解为一种责任,这就会使孩子对父爱的感受大打折扣。孩子崇拜的第一个人往往就是父亲。父亲的爱会影响孩子的一生,会给孩子以自信,会给孩子以勇气和力量。——摘自本文2001年,我随中国社工代表团去美国时,在洛杉矶听詹姆斯·杜布森博士讲一个故事。里根总统的儿子对杜布森博士说,他怀疑父亲是否还爱他。杜布森
I think my father said to the child “I love you” a little hypocritical, this hypocritical should not appear between father and son or father. In fact, this is a mistake. If the father does not tell her child’s love, the child misunderstands it as a kind of responsibility, which will make the child’s feelings of fatherly love greatly reduced. The first person to be a child is often the father. Father’s love will affect the child’s life, will give the child confidence, give the child courage and strength. - From this article In 2001, when I went to the United States with a Chinese social worker delegation, I listened to a story in Dr. James Dubson in Los Angeles. President Reagan’s son said to Dr. Dobson he doubted whether his father still loved him. Dobson