孩子刚走入学校时，会有很多不适应，在他们的思维里，一时还不知道自己的社会角色与以往有何不同。在下面这个个案里，咨询员告诉家长怎样有效、理智地对待入学不久的孩子来话者（以下简称Ｂ）：我儿子７岁了，刚上小学一年级，他写作业特别磨蹭，不是一般的磨蹭，我都快急死 When children just go to school, there will be a lot of incommensurate, in their thinking, for a moment still do not know their social roles and how different from the past. In the following case, the counselor told parents how to deal effectively and rationally with the soon-to-be-enrolled children (hereinafter referred to as B): My son is seven years old and has just completed the first grade of primary school. Scratch, I almost rush to death