有些青年朋友在跟人交往时,喜欢大谈特谈自己;粗俗一点的,谈我在社会上怎么兜得转,我在单位里怎么吃得开;高雅一点的,谈我的小提琴拉得如何如何,我的诗写得如何如何……总而言之,都离不开一个“我”字。在此,我援引意大利作曲家威尔第的一段颇有意味的话,与这些朋友共勉——威 Some young friends like to talk about themselves when talking to people; vulgar, talk about how I’m going to get around in society, how I ate in the flat; how elegant I was, how my violin was pulled, How my poem is written ... All in all, I can not do without a “me” word. Here, I quote a rather interesting remark from Verdi, an Italian composer, to encourage these friends