在家庭中，几乎每个青年人都可能遇到自己的意见被长辈否定的情形。在这种情况下，通常有两种选择：一是以对长辈的态度不予理睬，坚持自己的意见，一意孤行。二是善于说服，用自己的智慧和口才得体地阐明自己的观点，使长辈理解并同意自己的选择，站到自己一边，成为自己的后 In the family, almost every young person may encounter the situation that his opinion is denied by elders. In this case, there are usually two options: one is to ignore the attitude of the elders, insist on their own opinions, go it alone. Second, be good at persuasion, use your own wisdom and eloquence to articulate your point of view so that elders understand and agree with your choices, stand on your side and be your own