当人们心中有了烦恼时,常常希望能够倾诉出来,好友的劝告与抚慰,有助于使烦恼烟消云散。此时,倾诉也许并非期望寻求什么办法,解决什么问题,而主要是为了满足情感表达的需求,满足心灵慰藉的需求。所以,倾诉者往往不是寻求一个好参谋,而是想找一个好听众。那么,这时同性与异性相比,谁是更好的听众呢?当然是异性。 When people have trouble in their hearts, often want to be able to talk out, friends advice and comfort, help to make trouble disappear. At this point, talk may not seek to find what way to solve any problem, but mainly to meet the emotional expression needs to meet the spiritual comfort needs. Therefore, the complainant often not seek a good staff, but looking for a good listener. So who is the better listener when compared to same sex and heterosexuality? Of course it’s the opposite sex.