白领相亲作为现代社会的一个普遍现象,其“弱关系”的运用实践挑战了中国社会网络研究普遍认同的“强关系”理论假设,反应出当前青年择偶条件与机制的深刻变迁。本文在描述与分析白领相亲的择偶条件目标定位精准确化、择偶对象多元化、择偶空间加大等现代社会基础后,提出白领相亲中强关系无效,转而运用“弱关系”的实质,从而提出白领相亲的相关建议。 As a common phenomenon in modern society, white-collar blindness challenges the application of “weak relationship” to challenges the “strong relationship” theory assumption universally accepted by Chinese social network research and reflects the profound changes in the current conditions and mechanism of youth choice. After describing and analyzing the modern social basis of target selection of mate selection criteria, white-collar selection and diversification of spouse selection, and other modern social bases, this paper proposes that the relationship between white-collar blindness and strong relationship is invalid and the essence of “weak relationship” is used instead , Thereby making white-collar related proposals.