思索人生有歧路,儿女共沾巾。1.三十而立,回去还是不回去?成为一个让人纠结的话题。于许多在弱冠之年,就远离家乡、在京沪打拼的中国青年来说,“长安”虽好,却永远不是他们的原乡。尽管在陌生的都市,拥有了户籍、工作乃至房产,挥之不去的异乡感,却如同一枚隐蔽在衣角处的绣花针,不时出来扎人肌体。它提醒你,在这个城市,你没有持久的、可永恒信赖的关系,更不用说是亲情;它以种种方式告诉你,最丁点儿的幸福(无论是精神还是物质的),往往需要极高昂的代价获 Thinking about life is different, children a total of towel. 1. Thirty stand, go back or not go back? Become a tangled topic. For many young Chinese who are far away from hometown and hard-fought in Beijing and Shanghai in the years of their weakest years, “Changan” is good though it is never their hometown. Although in unfamiliar cities, possession of household registration, work and even real estate, lingering sense of foreign land, but like a hidden embroidery needle in the clothes, from time to time tied to the body. It reminds you that in this city you do not have lasting, trustworthy relationships, let alone relationships; it tells you in every way that the tiniest blessing, be it spiritual or material, often requires very high The price is won