我和妻子都在企业工作,自儿子上学后,我们只好“早送晚接”孩子中午就餐、休息和下午放学后的这段时间,就托付给父母二老代为看管。由于我们疏于引导,孩子小知从何时起沾染上一些坏毛病:上课不认真听讲,作业不能按时完成,在父母跟前任性蛮横……我和妻子急得内心上火,可两人在科学教子方面毫无经验。起先是气急之下采取“大棒加胡萝卜”政策,儿子表现不好时,先是一番叱骂,严重时再带点“颜色”教训;成绩若有所提高或有段时时间没犯错 My wife and I are working in the enterprise. Since my son went to school, we had to “bring the child back to her home” at noon for lunch and rest on the afternoon after school. We entrusted the two parents with care. Due to our neglect of guidance, the children know when they are contaminated with some bad habits: they do not listen carefully in class, their assignments can not be completed on time, and they are unruly in their parents’ ways. My wife and I are so anxious that both can be in science There is no experience in teaching children. At first, under the impatience to take the “stick plus carrot” policy, when his son did not perform well, first of all curse, serious and then a little “color” lesson; if the results have improved or some time no mistakes