每个人都处于一定社会关系的联结之中,人的生存过程一定意义上也就是与他人、与社会的交际过程,而交际的最主要工具就是言语。无论是朋友间的小聚,还是隆重的公众场所,要表达自己的情感和态度,最直接、最有效的工具还是运用语言。但是,个体在运用语言表情达意的时候,往往会遇到两种不同的态度。当你在大庭广众之下侃侃而谈的时候,有些人会说,这样的人没几个好人,就知道花言巧语,口若悬河,不值得信的。这种态度原也 Everyone is in the connection of certain social relations. The process of human existence is, in a certain sense, the process of communication with others and society. The most important tool in communication is speech. Whether it is a gathering of friends or a grand public place, the most direct and effective means of expressing one’s feelings and attitudes is the use of language. However, individuals often encounter two different attitudes when they express their emotions in language. When you talk loudly under the crowd, some people will say that such a few people know good words, eloquent, unbelievable. The original attitude of this