在一个人那里,他说得对的,你听了;他说得不对的,你从了。那么这个人,就可能对你为所欲为。因为,你没有底线,他就没有原则。强权是这么产生的,蛮横也是这么产生的。这个世间一切的居高临下,一切的欺辱,都是这么产生的。没有适当的愤怒,就会丧失对方对你的敬重;没有坚守的立场,对方就会在你的摇摆里觉得有机可乘。每个人都会在对方那里呈现两个你,一个是表面上的你,一个是骨子里的你。坏人,就是从骨子里的你那里,看到了软弱。 He was right when he was right, and you heard it; he was right, and you came. Then this person, you may do whatever you want. Because you have no bottom line, he has no principle. Power is so produced, rudeness is so produced. All this arrogance in this world, all the insults, are so produced. Without proper anger, you lose respect for each other; without a firm stand, your partner will feel an advantage in your swing. Everyone presents two other people to each other, one is superficial you and the other is your inner one. The bad one, from the one in the bones, sees the weakness.