适时的示弱,只是在接纳一个完整的自己。警惕“坚强症候群”人的一生,有两个重要能力需要学习,一个是坚强独立的能力,一个是接纳自己脆弱的能力。我曾看到两个宣扬“坚强”的新闻,看后十分感慨。一个是一位优秀教师,为了救学生被车撞死了。记者采访了她的儿子:“你母亲去世了,你怎么没哭啊?”“因为我母亲生前经常教导我做个坚强的人,我一定要坚强, Timely weakness, just to accept a complete self. Vigilant ”strong syndrome “ people’s life, there are two important ability to learn, one is strong and independent ability, one is to accept their own vulnerability. I have seen two news propaganda ”strong “, after looking very much emotion. One is a good teacher who was killed by a car to save the students. Reporters interviewed her son: ”Your mother died, how did you not cry? “ ”" Because my mother often taught me to be a strong man in his lifetime, I must be strong,