清代书画家陈鸿寿有一幅手书联:“课子课孙先课己,成仙成佛且成人。”意思是,要教育好孩子,父母必须以身作则。 “课己”要表里如一,说到做到。凡是要求孩子去做的,自己首先要实行;要求孩子勤快,父母就不能懒散;要求孩子孝敬长辈,父母自己须先敬老;要求孩子文明礼貌,自己就得杜绝污言秽行;要求孩子抓紧时间努力 Chen Hongshou, a painter and calligrapher in the Qing Dynasty, wrote a handwritten book: “The class begins with Sun, becomes immortality and becomes an adult.” The meaning is that to educate a good boy, parents must lead by example. “Lesson ” should be superficial, when it comes to doing it. Those who require children to do, they must first be implemented; require children to be diligent, parents can not be lazy; require elders to honor their elders, parents must first respect the old; require children to be polite, they have to put an end to dirty things; require children to seize the time Work hard