当父母沉浸于自己的事务中,尤其是情感纠葛和冲突中时,极易发生对孩子情感需要(也包括其他需要)的疏忽。而这样的疏忽所导致的后果常常非常极端:要么使孩子患病,包括精神心理方面的疾病:要么使孩子走向死亡的绝境,因为惟有死亡才能最终引起父母的真正关注。这其实是我们的潜意识所做的最激烈的表达,虽然在这个案例上看起来是一场意外。换句话说．潜意识会用死亡来让那该负责任的人醒悟,并使他们承受巨大的痛苦。这绝不是危言耸听。 When parents are immersed in their own affairs, especially in emotional disputes and conflicts, the negligence of their emotional needs (including other needs) can easily occur. The consequences of such negligence are often extremely extreme: getting the child sick, including mental illness, either leads the child to the point of death because death alone can ultimately arouse the true concern of the parents. This is actually the most intense expression of our subconsciousness, though it may seem like an accident in this case. in other words. Subconsciousness will use death to wake the responsible person awake and cause them great suffering. This is by no means alarmist.