女儿出生后很长一段时间,我都没有任何角色转变的意识。而且我曾经说过的,当时自以为很敬业的一句话是:“我基本没有因为女儿的出生而影响我往常的时间表。”后来才意识到自己对于做母亲这个角色的认知是多么无知,甚至有些愚蠢。在这种思想和态度的支配下,自己无意中犯了不知有多少错误。而直接代价就是我女儿本应该得到的快乐、幸福和对我的亲近感。 For a long time after my daughter was born, I did not have any sense of role change. And I once said that I was very dedicated at the time saying: “I basically did not affect my usual timetable because of the birth of a daughter.” I realized later how ignorant it was to recognize my role as a mother , Even a bit stupid. Under the control of such thoughts and attitudes, I inadvertently made many mistakes. The direct cost is my daughter should have been happy, happy and close to me.