李纨在大观园中所处的位置决定了她的立场,她小心地经营着自己的人生。她觉知自己的每一刻以及周遭环境的状况,随时随地保持清醒,所以,尽管置身于一张复杂的人际关系网中,她依然能够理智、沉着、克制、谦逊地应对着。李纨的人际交往之道,以及从中折射出的生存智慧和个人素养,值得现代职场中人玩味和借鉴。 Li Yong’s position in Grand View Garden determines her position, she carefully manages her own life. She knew every moment of her situation and the surrounding environment, awake anytime, anywhere, so, despite exposure to a complex network of relationships, she still can be rational, calm, restrained, modest response. Li 纨 interpersonal communication, as well as reflected from the survival of wisdom and personal qualities, it is worth the people in the modern workplace and learn from.