“望子成龙”、“望女成凤”,是为人父母者对儿女们的一种良好而殷切的期望,期望他们将来能够出人头地、光耀门楣,给辛勤养育他们的父母“争口气”,但是这无形中给了那些孩子们很大的压力,他们中的大多数往往达不到父母们对自己“过高”的期望。然而,有些父母仍旧一意孤行,一定要按照自己的想法造就他们的孩子,更有甚者竟以暴力手段揠苗助长……家庭教育不等于家庭暴力,为人父母者应该实事求是地对待孩子们的发展,多给他们一些理解和自由,这样会对双方都有益处。 “Succeed in stereotypes” and “looking forward to women” are a good and ardent expectation for parents and their children, hoping that they will be able to excel in the future, shine lintel and “contend” with their parents who nurture them industriously, but this is invisible Gave them a lot of pressure on the children, most of whom often failed to meet the parents’ expectations of their “overhigh”. However, some parents still behave in such a way that they must create their own children according to their own ideas. What is more, they actually resort to violence to promote children’s growth ...... Family education does not mean domestic violence. Parents should treat children’s development in a realistic manner. Some of them are understandable and free and this will benefit both parties.