我们已经无数次地证明了溺爱的危害,但我们仍然觉得很有必要换个角度——从社会文化角度来展示溺爱的原因,以便进一步对症下药。高尔基早就说过,“爱孩子,那是连老母鸡都会的事情。”报上曾提到过,一对“老外”夫妇带孩子游玩,孩子在前面跌倒,两位“老外”竟然无动于衷,静等着孩子哭完了自己爬起来。我们听了这样的事情,心里会觉得一阵酸楚,无由地泛起怜爱之心。是不是那些“老外”们都利令智昏、缺情少感,而我们则显得特别地善爱呢?非也!爱孩子的情感都是一致的,而 We have proven countless times about the dangers of spoiling, but we still find it necessary to go from one perspective - from the socio-cultural perspective, to show the causes of spoiling for further remedy. Gorky said long ago, “Love your child, that’s the thing that even old hens do.” “As mentioned in the newspaper, a pair of” foreigner “couples play with their children and their children fall in front. Foreigner ”even indifferent, quiet waiting for the child to cry over himself up. We have heard such a thing, my heart will feel a while sour, invariably loving heart. Are not those “foreigners ” are so beneficial to Chi Zhi, lack of feeling less, and we appear to be particularly good at love? Non-also! Love children’s emotions are the same, and