发展心理学告诉我们,儿童的自我意识还不成熟,其自我认识和自我评价基本上是以成年人的评价为标准,特别是父母和老师等孩子眼中的权威人物的评价。如果权威人物对儿童的评价失当,就有可能给儿童造成心理创伤。随着时间的推移,儿童似乎淡忘了这个创伤,其实这创伤依然清晰地储存在儿童的记忆深处,只要具备一定的环境条件,童年的创伤就会引发相应的心理行为问题,甚至形成心理障碍或更严重的精神疾病。 Developmental psychology tells us that children’s self-awareness is not yet mature, and their self-awareness and self-evaluation are basically based on the evaluation of adults, especially those from parents such as parents and teachers. If the authoritative character miscalculation of children, it is possible to cause psychological trauma to children. With the passage of time, children seem to forget the trauma, in fact, the trauma is still clearly stored in children’s memory, as long as there is a certain environmental conditions, childhood trauma will lead to the corresponding psychological behavior problems, and even the formation of psychological disorders Or more serious mental illness.