因谣言而引发的“拉郎配”固然荒唐可笑,但其深层次的原因在于专制皇权的暴虐。一男婚女嫁,在中国的传统习俗中,从来是男求女而不是相反。女求男即或有之,也只是个别现象,且只会在暗中进行,否则拉郎为配,强嫁于人,对一个女子来说,无异于自轻自贱,世人也会视这样的女人为没人要的“贱货”。然而在中国古代,却发生过多起“拉郎配”事件。最早的“拉郎配”发生在元代,这是一起准拉郎配性质的事件。陶宗仪《南村辍耕录》 Because of rumors, it is absurd and ridiculous that “pull and match” is caused by rumors, but the deeper reason lies in the tyranny of the autocratic imperial power. A married man and a woman marry, in the traditional Chinese tradition, has never been male rather than the opposite. Female or male, or male, is only an isolated phenomenon, and will only be carried out secretly. Otherwise, as a matchmaker, a man may marry a man as much as a man, and the world will regard it as such The woman is no one wants “cheap goods ”. However, in ancient China, there were many incidents of “pulling and grooming”. The earliest “La Lang with ” occurred in the Yuan Dynasty, which is a matter of nature with the standard pull Lang. Tao Zongyi “South Village stop cultivating record”