在学校教育中，家长参与的必要性已经得到了广泛的认可，许多学校创造了多种多样让家长参与的方式，如举办家长学校、召开家长会、家访等。然而，有些家长不管学校创造怎么样的参与方式，不管教师做了多少工作，他们就是不参与。不参加家长会，躲避老师家访，对学校的要求漠然 In school education, the necessity of parental participation has been widely recognized, and many schools have created a variety of ways for parents to participate, such as holding parent schools, holding parent meetings, home visits, and so on. However, some parents do not participate in the school regardless of how they are created. No matter how much work the teacher does, they do not participate. Do not attend the parent meeting, avoid the teacher’s home visit, and be indifferent to the requirements of the school