你一定听说过“爱情蒙蔽了双眼,,这句话,其实当你说话的时候,你的眼睛和耳朵也同样在被蒙蔽着。一旦你讲得兴致盎然、滔滔不绝,就会很难发觉自己处于”讨人嫌“的境地。你甚至不会发现其他人正善意地试图插话,或者正试图离开(很有可能是觉得你实在太烦了,想赶快逃离)。与人谈话,有三个阶段。第一个阶段,你的谈话在点子上,具有相关性和准确性。但 You must have heard of ”love blinded my eyes, this sentence, in fact, when you speak, your eyes and ears are also being blinded. Once you talked about the spirited, endless, it will be very It’s hard to find yourself in a “disgusting.” You do not even see other people trying to intervene in good faith, or trying to leave (most likely think you’re too tired to flee). There are three stages to talking, and in the first stage, your conversation is thought of as having relevance and accuracy.