孔子曾说过,“己所不欲,勿施于人”。换位思考是人对人的一种心理体验过程,是将心比心、设身处地、达成理解,不可缺少的心理机制。我班有一名学生,是从乡下来的,是一位留守儿童。他除了体育好点以外,成绩是我班最差的一个,纪律更不用说,不良习惯很多。为此我找他多次谈话,他都每次“虚心”听取我的意见,可是不出一两天他还是照样,跟家长谈话,但这并没有解决本质问题,这些坏习惯丝毫没有改变。 Confucius once said, “Do not do what you want, do not impose on others.” Empathy is a psychological experience of people on the process, is the heart of heart, set ourselves in place to reach an understanding of the indispensable psychological mechanism. There is a student in my class who came from the country and is a left-behind child. In addition to sports, he is a good point, the result is the worst one in my class, not to mention discipline, a lot of bad habits. For this reason I talked to him many times, and he always listened to my views with “open heart”. However, he did not talk to his parents for a day or two, but this did not solve the essential problems. change.