现在许多80后90后已长大成人甚至结婚生子,但这一代人的父母似乎还是把子女当作襁褓中的娃娃一样呵护,一样管制,以至于子女与父母的关系并不理想。其实作为子女,我们心里都明白,父母所做的一切都是为了我们着想,但是我们却很少思考父母为什么会以这种方式来爱我们,在我们羽翼逐渐丰满的时候,他们面临着怎样的心理问题,他们在心理上需要做怎样的调整。 Nowadays many 80-year-olds and even 90-year-olds have become married and have children. However, the parents of this generation still seem to care for and treat their children as unruly dolls, so that the relationship between their children and their parents is not satisfactory. In fact, as a child, we all understand that what our parents do is for our sake, but we seldom think about why our parents love us in this way. When we are getting full, what are they facing? Psychological problems, they need to be psychologically adjusted.