现在,单亲家庭的孩子受到社会的普遍关注,但有些家庭表面完整,父母并未离异,可孩子的状态形同单亲,却很少有人注意。这种状况通常是由父母一方在家,另一方长期不在家,也就是家建中长期的“候鸟现象”造成的,其中“候鸟父亲”的情况居多。我们姑且把这样的家庭称为“假性单亲”。“假性单亲”的孩子在很多方面遇到的问题和单亲孩子相似,但在某些方面却又不同,因为他们所面临的生活状态可能比单亲孩子更不稳定,心里更不踏实,因而出现的问题也就更复杂、更特殊。 At present, children of single-parent families are generally noticed by the community. However, some families have complete appearances and their parents have not divorced. Their children’s status is like that of single parents, but few people pay attention to them. This situation is usually caused by the parents’ home and the other party’s permanent absence, that is, the mid-to-long term “migratory bird phenomenon” in which “the father of the migratory birds” is mostly used. Let us call such a family “pseudo-single parents.” In many ways, the problems encountered by children with “pseudo-single parents” are similar to those with single-parent children, but in some respects they are different because the living conditions they face may be more unstable than single-parent children and less realistic in their hearts. Therefore, the problems that arise are also more complicated and special.