这是一个经典的关于选择的哲学命题:在一头牛的两边各有一堆草,这头牛思忖着到底该吃哪一堆,它左右为难,拿不定主意,最后饿死了。其实这反映了人人都面临选择的困境,用通俗的话说是“这山望着那山高”。对大多数旅美的中国人而言,中国和美国就像牛两边的草堆,这是一个两难的抉择。如果你读过张爱玲的《红玫瑰与白玫瑰》,你一定能明白那是一种怎样的感受! This is a classic philosophical proposition of choice: There is a pile of grass on each side of a cow, and the cow contemplates exactly what to eat in the end, a dilemma, uncertainty, and starving to death. In fact, this reflects the predicament that everyone faces with their choices. In plain language, this mountain looks at the mountain. “ For most Chinese traveling to the United States, China and the United States are like hay bales on both sides of the cow. This is a dilemma. If you’ve read Zhang Ailing’s ”Red Roses and White Roses," you can understand what it is like!