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天津市杨村一中心理辅导教师周玉波日前对本市初、高中阶段的528名在校生进行了一次问卷调查,调查显示,只有9.85%的学生选择了“当你有烦恼与忧愁时,找父母谈心”栏,而且大部分是女生。这一数据也恰恰说明了中学生心理上对父母所产生的距离和不信任。“知子莫如父”这一传统观念正在受到挑战。造成这种距离和不信任的原因是多方面的,除中学生强烈的“心理断乳”倾向外,不科学的家庭教育观和传统的家长专制作风也是另一重要原因。通过调查分析,在能主动与父
Zhou Yubo, a tutor in Yangcun, Tianjin, conducted a survey of 528 students at the beginning and the middle school level in the city. According to the survey, only 9.85% of the students chose to talk to their parents when you have troubles and sorrows “Column, but most of the girls. This data also shows precisely the secondary school students psychological distance and distrust generated by their parents. The traditional notion of ”Mo Zhimo“ is being challenged. There are many reasons for this kind of distance and distrust. Apart from the strong ”psychological weaning" tendency among middle school students, the unscientific family education concept and the traditional paternalism are another important reason. Through investigation and analysis, I can take the initiative with the father