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常听到老师有这样的感慨:现在的孩子经不起挫折和考验,输不起。又不时地听到家长说:我家小孩“输不起”,在游戏中输了,便不认输、发脾气,甚至退出不再玩;画没画好,就把辛辛苦苦画了很久的画一下就撕碎。主持:培养孩子承受挫败的容忍力,让孩子拥有一份“输得起”的精神,有助于提升孩子的“抗逆力”,使他日后在遇到挫折时不容易跌倒,以正面、乐观的心态战胜困难。那么,如何培养孩子“输得起”的精神呢?看看以下几位家长是怎么做的吧。
Often hear the teacher has such a feeling: Now the child can not stand the test of frustration, can not afford to lose. From time to time to hear the parents said: my family children “can not afford to lose,” lost in the game, they do not admit defeat, angry, and even quit playing no longer; painting did not draw well, put painstakingly drawn a long time painting Torn about it. Moderator: Fostering children’s tolerance for frustration and giving them a spirit of “losing affordability” will help enhance their children’s “resilience” so that they will not easily fall in the face of setbacks in the future. With a positive, Optimistic attitude overcome difficulties. So, how to train children to “lose” the spirit? Look at the following parents how to do it.