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以前,我对儿子要求很严,把儿子管得循规蹈矩。不准他单独去看电影、交异性朋友;放学后不能逛街,必须按时回家。不准这,不准那,规矩繁多,回到家后,就是看书学习。随着儿子逐渐长大,我渐渐发现,他不在我的控制范围之内了。我的高压政策不会奏效了。他和我有了代沟,而且是不小的代沟。我想努力去说服他:“我是你妈,你就得听我的。”但结果总是徒劳的。一个周末,他放学回家后,用非常坚定的口气对我说:“我要和同学到电影院看一
In the past, I had strict demands on my son and kept my son in charge. He is forbidden to go to the movies alone and make friends of the opposite sex; he can not go shopping after school and must go home on time. Do not allow this, are not allowed to that many rules, after returning home, is reading study. As my son grew older, I gradually realized that he was out of my control. My high-pressure policy will not work. He and I have a generation gap, but also a small generation gap. I want to try to persuade him: ”I am your mother, you have to listen to me. “ But the result is always futile. One weekend, after he came home from school, he told me with a very firm tone: ”I want to go to the cinema with my classmates to see a