如果有人问我儿童最需要培养的品质是什么,我会说自信心、兴趣和习惯,并认为这是非常重要的少先队教育目标。没有浓厚的兴趣,就没有成长的动力;没有良好的习惯,就没有成长的保障;而兴趣与习惯都离不开自信心这个基础。特别值得注意的是,儿童时代是最容易自卑的时代,因为孩子是那么弱小,对自己充满了怀疑,对大人充满了敬畏。比如小学里绝大多数成绩暂时落后的学生是男生,他们却往往不知道这与自己比女生发育晚有关,可悲地认定自己永远没有希望了。更可悲的是,许多父母和教师也如此认为。 If someone asks me what is the quality I need most for my child to develop, I will speak of self-confidence, interests and habits, and I think this is a very important goal of Young Pioneers education. Without a strong interest, there is no motivation to grow; without good habits, there is no guarantee of growth; and interest and habits are inseparable from the foundation of self-confidence. Particularly noteworthy is that children’s times are the most easily inferiority era, because children are so small, full of doubt about themselves, full of respect for adults. For example, the vast majority of pupils in primary school temporarily underperforming students are boys, but they often do not know that this is related to their development than girls late, sad to find himself forever hopeless. Even more sadly, many parents and teachers think so too.